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The Sacred Dance of Holding On and Letting Go: A Meditation on Grief, Becoming, and the Wisdom of the Soul

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"Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you."   Rumi We often speak of life as a journey, as if it were a straight path from one point to another. But the soul knows otherwise. Life does not move in lines. It spirals. It circles back, it folds in, it expands out. It is rhythm, breath, tide. We pull in what we long for: people, dreams, meanings. Just as surely, life will ask us to release them. This ebb and flow is not a flaw in the design. It is the design. To hold is natural. To let go is sacred. Grief, when it arrives, does not come to shatter. It comes to reveal. Not in words, but in the stillness that follows after they have all been spoken. When the world quiets and the echo of what was once dear reverberates in the chambers of the heart, something ancient within us begins to awaken. It is not just pain that stirs. It is perception. Grief does not merely wound. It widens. We begin to see. The sorrow in a stranger’s eyes. The lone...

The Illusion of Wealth: Breaking Free from the Chains of Money and Unlocking Abundance

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Have you ever paused in the middle of your workday, looked up from your screen, and wondered what am I really doing this for? You might have a steady career, financial security, and the ability to afford things without hesitation. By all definitions, you are successful. But tell me, do you ever stop to ask yourself if what you're doing is truly valuable? Do you hold back your thoughts to keep a client happy? Do you accept "this is just the way things are" to ensure your paycheck arrives on time? Have you ever silenced your instincts, your creativity, just to chase the external validation that money brings? And if so, at what cost? The Never Ending Chase We don’t just earn to live. We accumulate, we chase, we measure our worth in numbers, believing that once we reach a certain point, we will finally feel secure, free, fulfilled. But has that ever been true? A better home, a bigger car, another promotion, another investment. And then? More. Always more. Society has conditio...

The Overflowing Cup: A Conversation on Self-Love and Purpose.

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Let’s be honest—whenever we do something, there’s almost always an expectation attached. Even when we do something nice, somewhere in the back of our minds, we’re thinking, ‘How does this benefit me?’ Maybe it’s wanting better attention from a partner, more love, a little extra appreciation. Or at work, it could be a better position, a raise, or just wanting to be seen. Everything becomes a transaction, a silent tally of effort versus reward. But what if the whole point wasn’t about getting something back? What if the act itself was the purpose, and the outcome was already taken care of? That sounds absurd, right? Like, what’s the point of working hard if you don’t know what you’re getting? But that’s exactly the paradox. The less you obsess over the result, the more things flow in ways you never imagined. There’s an old story in the Vedas about a conversation between Krishna and Arjuna. Arjuna was stuck—afraid to take action because he didn’t want to face the consequences. He was tang...

Beyond Success: Why True Growth Comes from Creation, Not Gain

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Success is not measured in wealth, titles, or relationships. It is not something you acquire, but something you  become . The people we admire—those who move through life with a quiet, effortless grace—haven’t followed a rigid formula. They have understood something deeper. Success is not in what you get, but in what you create. And to truly succeed, only two things matter. You create every day. Not just in the grand pursuits, but in the small, unnoticed moments. In how you speak, in how you listen, in how you respond to life. Every moment is an opportunity to bring something alive—a conversation, an idea, a feeling, an effort. But creation is not repetition. Doing the same job, following the same schedule, walking the same steps every day is not creation—it is merely  a replication of yesterday . And in a controlled environment, even predictable actions do not guarantee the same results. A child wakes up on time, so they go to bed on time, and the rest of the day falls into p...

Stop Searching: How Letting Go Leads to Spiritual Awakening

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I don't know why, but today, I had the urge to channel the same thought in other words, like perhaps someone needs to read this now, or asked it to come in another way. So, here we go: People often ask me if I follow a particular method or philosophy, and I tell them—it’s not about having a method. The moment you chase one, you’ve already confined yourself. Growth isn’t a formula; it’s a state of being. The mind expands when it is free, not when it is wrapped around a framework. Don’t cling to one thing. Don’t cling to anything. In that letting go, you’ll find yourself more alive, more ecstatic, more in love with existence itself. Methods are imprints of those who came before us, and when we follow too rigidly, we unknowingly surrender our own ability to create. We are not meant to live through borrowed lenses. If you recognize that the miraculous is within you, why look to another to show you the way? It’s easier to follow, yes, but why is your gaze turned outward? The real follow...

Love, Trust, and Letting Go : A Yogi’s Path to Connection

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We often talk about boundaries—how much to give, how to protect ourselves from being taken for granted. But what if, instead of shielding ourselves, we trusted love a little more? What if we allowed it to be imperfect, unguarded, and fully felt? We've been conditioned to believe that too much love makes us weak, vulnerable, easy to hurt. But maybe it’s the opposite. Maybe withholding love is what truly weakens us. When was the last time you loved someone without hesitation? Without wondering if they felt the same? Without holding back a piece of yourself, just in case? What if love was never about safety, but about surrender? What if it wasn’t about ensuring someone stays, but trusting that even if they don’t, you are still whole? Love is not meant to complete us—it is meant to remind us that we were never incomplete to begin with. It is an energy, a force that moves through us, shapes us, sometimes even breaks us, so we can grow into something truer. And yet, we spend so much time...

Breaking Free: The Art of Living Beyond the Process

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Ever feel like life has become a series of checkboxes, a list of tasks that never truly  mean  anything? What if I told you that spirituality isn’t about stillness—it’s about  finding stillness in motion ? It’s not about escaping life’s flow, but about  riding it , fully present, fully alive. The secret? You figure things out  only  when you decide you will. The moment you say,  I don’t know how , or insist there’s only  one  way to do something, you lock yourself in. You stop creating. You stop expanding. And before you know it, life becomes a dull loop of repetition. But look around—there are at least 500 ways to put dish soap on a sponge. If something so basic holds endless possibilities, imagine the infinite ways to approach work, love, or problem-solving. The idea that there's only  one  right way? That’s the biggest illusion of all. That’s  slavery to tools . The Illusion of Process We’ve been trained to follow. To adhere...